Before and after you fall in love: …

BEFORE – You take my breath away    AFTER – I feel likeI’m suffocating

BEFORE – Twice a night                    AFTER – Twice a month

BEFORE – She says she loves the way I take control of a situation     AFTER – She calls me a controlling, manipulative egomaniac

BEFORE – Don’t stop                            AFTER – Don’t start

BEFORE – Is that all you’re having?     AFTER – Maybe you should have just a salad, honey

BEFORE – It’s like I’m living in a dream     AFTER – It’s like she lives in a dorm

BEFORE – 60 Euro/doz.                              AFTER – 1.50 Euro/stem

BEFORE – We agree on everything     AFTER – Doesn’t she have a mind of her own?

BEFORE – La Perla, Victoria’s Secret     AFTER – Fruit-of-the-Loom, So-En

BEFORE – Idol                                            AFTER – Idle

BEFORE – I love a woman with curves     AFTER – I never said you were fat

BEFORE – Time stood still     AFTER – This relationship is going nowhere

BEFORE – Croissant and cappuccino     AFTER – Bagel and instant

BEFORE – You look so seductive in black     AFTER – Your clothes are so depressing

BEFORE – Oysters     AFTER – Fishsticks

BEFORE – Passion     AFTER – Ration

BEFORE – Once upon a time     AFTER – The end

It's over

Relationships are one of the most complex aspects of our lives. To decide to end up a relationship when you fall out of love  is easier than being caught in the middle. Middle of what?  Between your mind and heart, of course! This is what I’m going to deal now: loving your partner but for some reasons, you are confused, perhaps, pathetic?!

So, are you having this “too good to leave, too bad to stay” dilemma?? Please read on.

I think it is time I let you go, and that is so hard to do because some part of me will be in love with you for the rest of my life, but the daydreaming, the running in place .. it’s not healthy. So this is me, cutting the cord. This is me, doing what I should have done eight months ago … saying goodbye.” -Dawsons Creek

“I don’t know if I should end up our relationship”, Gianna confided sadly as we were having our cappuccino together. “Are you happy with your relationship?” I asked her searching for a glint of joy in her blue eyes. She fumbled her fingers inside her bag looking for her pack of cigarette as she answerd with confusion in her voce: ” I am sure I love him but he is always hurting me. He doesn’t trust me. He is controlling my life… what to wear, where I go, what I eat. I feel I’m loosing my identity.”

I continued listening as I stir up the froth of my cappuccino. The sensual bubbles popping in and out aroused  my  personal experiences and memories…where I’ve learned my mistakes and the real facts of life!

Being in a relationship is not an easy thing. It requires effort and commitment of both partners. One person can’t carry it alone. There should be a mutual attraction (physical, sexual, intellectual, etc), respect, interest, compromise etc.

When one of these factors is missing, be ready for trouble.

You might even try to save a relationship because you love the person who is not receptive but I think such attempts will be doomed to fail .  Even if you will succeed, you  will feel a tremendous toll that  drags you down the dumps!

Do you know when to break up? It can be a very dismal area, especially if you have invested a lot of time and emotions in your relationship.

I will try to cite out some points which I think are very important to consider whether to cut off or continue; to leave or to stay.

1. Physical abuse: Hitting. Slapping. Punching. Kicking. Shoving/Pushing. Quick, get out now!     If you are a masochist, stay!

 

2. Verbal abuse.  Common in many relationships, especially among teenagers. If you are constantly being put down by someone – break up!  If you are too proud and feel like God, then you need this kind of humiliation, stay!

 

3. No Respect.  If there is no mutual respect in your relationship, if you are disillusioned or disgusted by your partner, the work to gain that respect back is very difficult to achieve.     Leave!   If you are dumb, stay!

 

4. No Trust. If you do not trust your partner or vice-versa, imagine how many arguments and sleepless nights you both will have. Who needs that?  If you can’t forgive each other’s transgressions, then resentment will gradually replace love. Leave.  If you suffer from insomnia, stay!

 

5.  No fun together.  A relationship that’s no fun is dead. Leave.  If you are suicidal, stay!

 

6.  No shared goals and dreams. If you aren’t planning to spend your future together, something’s terribly wrong. Take off!    Are you commitmentphobe?, stay!

 

I believe  a relationship should enhance your life, not drain it. You’ll do a lot more good giving yourself to someone who’s more receptive to what you have to offer and who genuinely appreciates you for it.

If you’re spending your relationship fighting resistance more than sharing love, you’re probably better off letting it go and embracing a relationship that will provide greater mutual rewards for less work or live alone!

I added two sachets of sugar, stirring like creating tsunami whirlpools in my cup of cappuccino. Slowly, my lips meet the rim of my cup, smelling its rich aroma. Savoring  its reinvigorating concoction, I held Gianna’s hand and  said:

“Unless you have one love, big faith, and endless hope which supersedes everything, no matter what the circumstances are, you will find your answer. But then again, can you love enough to go willingly insane?”

If you are going to ask me, honestly: “I can not!”

I LOVE YOU, IT’S OVER!!!

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BREAK UP QUOTES

The most terrible poverty is loneliness and the feeling of being unloved.” – Mother Teresa

When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.” – Helen Keller

The hottest love has the coldest end.” – Socrates

When loving hearts are separated, not the one which is exhaled to heaven, but the survivor, it is which tastes the sting of death.” – Duchesse de Praslin

Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation.” -Kahlil Gibran

In a separation it is the one who is not really in love who says the more tender things.” – Marcel Proust

“Lovers may break our hearts, but only love can truly heal it.” – Les Vierges

To fall in love is awfully simple, but to fall out of love is simply awful.” – Bess Myerson

We are never so helplessly unhappy as when we lose love.”
- Freud

Let no one who loves be unhappy. Even love unreturned has it’s rainbow.”
- James Matthew Barrie

“Nothing takes the taste out of peanut butter quite like unrequited love.”
- Charlie Brown

“Pains of love be sweeter far than all the other pleasures are.”
John Dryden

“Absence is to love what wind is to fire; it extinguishes the small, it enkindles the great.”
-Comte DeBussy-Rabutin

“To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best.”
- William M. Thackeray

“To continue loving someone when there is no promise of that love thriving- that is romance.”
- Anonymous

“Faults are thick when love is thin.”
- Jo Petty

“The loss of love is not nearly as painful as our resistance to accepting it is.” – Tigress Luv

“Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a teardrop.” – Anonymous

“Better never to have met you in my dream than to wake and reach for hands that are not there.” – Otomo No Yakamochi

When you break up, your whole identity is shattered. It’s like death.” – Dennis Quaid

Take a second out to think about this: in your life you search and search for the right person for you. Every time you break up with someone you get one step closer to that person. You should look at moving on as getting closer to meeting the one.” – Ian Philpot

I love to shop after a bad relationship. I don’t know. I buy a new outfit and it makes me feel better. It just does. Sometimes I see a really great outfit, I’ll break up with someone on purpose.” – Rita Rudner

Americans, who make more of marrying for love than any other people, also break up more of their marriages, but the figure reflects not so much the failure of love as the determination of people not to live without it.” – Morton Hunt

Families break up when people take hints you don’t intend and miss hints you do intend” .- Robert Frost

I liked you because you could make me smile. I fell in love with you because you made me want to be a better person. Now that you’re leaving me, what am I supposed to do?” – Lisa Gilbert

And I don’t regret the rain, or the nights I felt the pain, or the tears I had to cry some of those times along the way. Every road I had to take, every time my heart would break; it was just something that I had to get through, to get me to you.” - Hope Floats

You gotta be fair to her. She loves you and if you don’t love her then you have to go tell her.” – Jerry Maguire

Never knew how quickly I would go from someone that you loved to someone you used to know.” -Collin Raye

Life is not the way it’s supposed to be. It’s the way it is. The way you deal with it is what makes the difference.” – Virginia Satir

The roads of life are strewn with the wreckage of run-down, half-finished loves.” – Ralph W. Sockman

They say love is right around the corner. I must be walking in circles.” – Unknown

I die inside a little more each time you replace me.” -Unknown

If time ever told me that I could only have one last thing to say to you, one final plea to try and make you understand how it is I feel, it wouldn’t be ‘I love you.’ It wouldn’t be ‘this was all pre-destined.’ And it wouldn’t be ‘one day you’ll regret this decision.’ Although it would be heart wrenching, I would look into your eyes and say ‘to love is to find freedom in its truest sense. And I would only hope one day you are able to let yourself be enveloped by the full intensity of that emotion.’ Those would be my final words of good-bye to you. It is only then that hope will have finally faded away and courage would help me go on. But always know a part of me will say: ‘soul wants you, heart needs you. For you I am willing to try.” – Unknown

When these days are gone, when all the love we gave to each other slowly fades away, when your beautiful smile is only here as a dream, and when the words ‘I love you’ are scripts of the past, I will always have the memories that were once moments, and I will always know that no matter what, I got the chance to be loved by you.” – Unknown

Many of us sit in the back seat of life and let someone else do all the driving. That’s okay if you don’t care where the car’s going. To set the course in the direction you want to go, you have to take the wheel. You have to drive.” – Judy Mae

When you realize you want to spend the rest of your life with someone, you want the rest of your life to start as soon as possible.” – When Harry Met Sally

Hearts will never be made practical until they are made unbreakable.” Wizard of Oz

I never knew it hurt so much to lose something you never really had.” -
The Wonder Years

In our young lives we search for someone to love, someone who makes us complete. We choose partners and change partners. We dance to a song of heartbreak and hope all the while wondering if somewhere and somehow there is someone searching for us.” – The Wonder Years

The course of true love never did run smooth.” – William Shakespeare

“There is a big difference between thinking: I’m in a relationship and something’s wrong. Therefore something must be wrong with the relationship, and thinking: I’m in a relationship and we’ve got problems. This is evidence that you are different than me. ” – Wayne Dyer

85 Responses to “I LOVE YOU, IT’S OVER”

  1.  

    aray ko naman! parang pinasasaringan mo na naman ako nyan eh! :(

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  2.  

    Before Getting Married Quote:

    Ask not only if you can live with the other person, but ask also if you can live without. Both of you must have the same answers of yes and no to have a good keeling of better relationship in the future.

    by: C5 and W5 (based on real love story)

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  3.  

    pati yata dito paborito ako ni Akismet! Paki-check yung comment ko earlier…tnx.

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  4.  

    Mina, maligayang pagdating sa aking pahinang me sapot! ;)
    saan ka ba tinamaan??

    is it about…

    BEFORE – Twice a night AFTER – Twice a month ???

    :D

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  5.  

    C5 aka akismet fave,

    yun your comment went to my aksimet, grabe hinanap ko isa isa.

    There were 152 comments identified as spam. ..haay!

    Tagal mo kasing hindi napasyal kaya hindi kana nakilala! ;)

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  6.  

    ang galing ross, very comprehensive post on love. hehe

    the Before/After statements are funny, sad and true (well some of them – depending on the relationship).

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  7.  

    Hi Robinson,

    Welcome din to you! I thought you are not a filipino :) Pinoy pala!

    thank you for appreciating my post ;)

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  8.  

    sige Ros, ayan, hindi na siguro ito malulunod sa spam pool mo… :D

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  9.  

    “BEFORE – La Perla, Victoria’s Secret
    AFTER – Fruit-of-the-Loom, So-En”

    that made me laugh lol. witty and funny kapatid but all you said was true. Like I remember when this girl posted on friendster 2 years ago about her troubles of her relationship (at binanggit pa pangalan nung guy pati school), I scolded her and said:

    “alam mo naman pala na ginagago ka na, bakit ka pa ayaw kumawala. kanina pa namin sinasabi sayo na bitiwan mo na, e ikaw itong palaging sinasabi na mahal mo pa. what’s the use of braodcasting your concerns here kung di ka rin pala makikinig?”

    that was rude of me, of course I just did that not to embarrass her but because of my utter concern and pity for her situation. After that she realized that the guy was not worth it. Siguro minsan inaantay ng babae (o lalake) na magising sa katotohanan para lang maging malaya. and sad part is, they wait for someone to scold them just to realize that enough is enough.

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  10.  

    C5, pati ba naman dito mahal na mahal ka pa rin ni Akis! lol laki ng tama sayo ni akis! hahaha

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  11.  

    c5,

    NO, this time akis didn’t touch you, dun ka lang naka pila sa “for approval” :)

    Iba iba kasi sig name/url/ email addy mo na ginagamit kaya siguro ganun.

    Akis told me “he” trust you now…so your relationship between you two will be better na ;)

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  12.  

    Blue,

    :) There are those who are aware of their pathetic situations and would prefer to stay while there are those blinded by their emotions, they needed someone to give them light and help them show their way out.

    Ok namn yun ginawa mo…minsan hindi lang electric shock ang kelangan pati psychological shock din ;)

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  13.  

    you mean even here di pinapapasok ni akis si c5? siguro magsyota ang sikyo natin! he h ehe

    anyway: love you post!

    HERE’S MY STORY:

    Hada ko si Marc.
    Single pa sya.
    After a year.
    Me gurpren na daw.
    Inaway ko.
    Siempre breakup.
    Bumalik.
    Pinatawad ko.
    Siempre, mahal nang lola mo.

    After some months, buntis na daw gurpren.
    Inaway ko uli. Iyaka ang lola mo.
    Siempre breakup.
    Bumalik.
    Pinatawad ko uli.
    Siempre, mahal nang lola mo ever.
    This time, hindi na hada.
    Feel ko boypren ko na sya.

    After some months or a year ata
    IKAKASAL NA RAW!
    PUCHAAA!~!@#$%^&!
    KUNG ME ATOMIC BOMB LANG SA NATIONAL BOOKSTORE BUY KO NA!
    AWAYAN EVER EVER!!!
    Siempre breakup.
    Bumalik.
    Pinatawad ko uli. Uli. Uli. Uli.
    Siempre, mahal nang lola mo ever ever talaga
    Eh boypren ko na nga eh.

    Pero in those years na megaaway kami
    Me card me, me flowers me, me calls me during valentines day.
    Alam mo bang inabot na kami nang limang taon?!

    Ngayon – nung Febwaring yon – ALA!
    So, nagkita kami right?!

    INAWAY KO ULI!

    “Pucha ka! Hudas ka! Kahit man lang tawag wala! Kahit junk mail wala! Taz susulpot ka dito?! Indi mo ba alam kung gano kasakit na walang ringtone sa araw na yon galing sa yo?!”

    Sabi:

    “Reynz! I’m not in love with you! I love ma wife!”

    Ugh!

    That was it.

    *breakup quote*

    LAYASSSSS!!!!

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  14.  

    anyway:

    sorry for my very intimate victoria secret story, but what is wrong with VERBAL ABUSE aber? CHUVA does it! FLIP does it! Do you do it DIWA?

    whattabout PERSONAL ABUSE?

    i like it kung sasampalin ka di ba, taz duguan yong labi mo, taz hahawakan ka sa leeg, pull ang hair mo, then sasabihin sayong “I love you!” taz hahalikan ka? Di ba ansarap nun?

    he he he

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  15.  

    isa pa:

    to na lang talaga! peks man

    sorry kung ginawa ko nang sariling blog ko tong blog mo!

    pede bang mag install ka nang subscribe sa comment para i could comment pag me response sa komento nang lola mo? yeap, kelangan mo nang sekretary anak dahil ulyanin na ang lola mo.

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  16.  

    REyna!
    you said “but what is wrong with VERBAL ABUSE aber? ” “whattabout PERSONAL ABUSE? “

    Inang, maybe you meant…physical abuse??

    Didn’t you see what I’ve said about it?

    physical abuse= If you are a masochist, stay!

    verbal abuse= If you are too proud and feel like God, then you need this kind of humiliation, stay!
    :D

    I like your love story you posted! Finally, at the end…sinabi mo na ng “LAYASS!!!”"”

    meron jan sa ilalim na subscribe sa comment ah??
    tiknan mo sa ilalim ng box ..ayun >>
    :)

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  17.  

    loka! hindi yan noh!

    basta basta. =P
    uwi ka na kasi!

    OT: sagot sa tanongmo kanina:

    kakantahan kita ng “bakit ngayon ka lang”

    ahihihi.

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  18.  

    he he he!

    TUNAY story yon ha? hindi yon kathang kaulolan.

    HA HA HA

    Ei!

    Wala talaga akong makita gaya nong nasa comments box ko! Azannnn!!! *silip*

    *SILIP*

    *SSSSIIIIIILLLIPPPPPP*

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  19.  

    hey ross, tawa ako ng tawa sa youtube video dito. sa ngayon di pa ako makapag-comment sa post mo kasi di ko pa nasabi yang I LOVE YOU, IT’s OVER hehehe

    dumadaan lang ako dito paminsan-minsan but u wouldn’t see my face anymore sa mybloglog mo because somebody stole the cookies of mybloglog from the cookie jar hehehe

    ingat dyan lagi.

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  20.  

    Mina,

    teka, kilala ba kita?? :)
    kakauwi ko lang, uuwi nanaman ako? Parang ginawang Makati – QC ang Italy -Manila ah?
    eh bakit mo ko kakantahan nun song na yun? aber? :O

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  21.  

    Reynz,

    hindi ba yan Comments RSS? teka ano bang klaseng plug in yun seo?

    RE your lafluv story, hindi mo ba binawi yun regalong brief, ref, tv etc sa kanya? :)

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  22.  

    BEA,
    yeah I really like that stick figure video…love is a never ending cycle! :)
    Maybe cookie monster took your cookies;)
    It’s ok if I won’t see your face, I can feel you pa rin!

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  23.  

    saan ka jan ross? stay o leave? he he… itutuloy ko pagbabasa mamaya-maya k. maglalaba at mamamalansta pa ako. Grrrr…

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  24.  

    dehins mo ko kilala?
    nuninuninuninuuuuuuuuuuu…..

    *nangungulit lang*

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  25.  

    @DIWA!!

    tagal mong maglaba ah? pag natapos mong basahin yun post ko…makikita mo yun malaki kong answer if STAY or LEAVE ako! :)

    @MINA,

    hehehe paamoy nga if makikilala kita, lagay mo kasi URL mo ;)

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  26.  

    si Mina ay si Diwa!!! *CIA mode*

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  27.  

    holleritas!

    hmmm… me bago dito?
    mamacee, si diwa yon si mina?
    eh di ba sya yong wala magawa sa opis nila na sumulat ke inang?

    di ba sya yon?

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  28.  

    i was completely touched w/ your post…recommeded ni ate bey kc gusto nya ako ma-inlove ulit…kahapon nung makasalubong ko ang lalaking nagpaiyak sa puso ko…isa lang nasa isip ko… Ross Will “… just do one good action today to someone you meet” kaya mega smile ako kahit masakit…nway, tnx & i’ll be dropping by often!

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  29.  

    C5, Ghandee,

    ano yan mga imbestigahan nyo ha?

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  30.  

    Hi Jen!

    oh wow, thanks! I just hope this post didn’t break your heart again.

    I’m glad my will about “doing good action today” has completely took its launch from you.

    May that effort help you in forgiving completely. :)

    Uhmmn, my best regards to Bea and thanks din sa kanya for promoting my simple blog :)

    Cheers to Life!

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  31.  

    I believe I will read this over and over again.

    I still am at the lowest point of my life, after she has completely broken up our relationship.

    I know, it was all my fault. And I could never forgive myself.

    It’s really bleeding through when she told me it’s impossible for us to be back again.

    I love her still…

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  32.  

    Jake,

    I’m so sorry about what happened between you two.
    Life is a learning process, please don’t forget about it.

    You will learn from your faults. Next time, I am confident, you will be a very good “partner” in life.

    Time heals..malay mo magkabalikan kayo ulit. Wait and wait…kung kayo, kayo!

    your AteRoss :)

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  33.  

    hahaha. ang galing talaga ni reynz mag kwento. buhay na buhay. kahit in his most serious stories he still manage to make people smile. astig.

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  34.  

    eeeeeeeeehhhh… di ako nag imbestiga noh.
    naalala ko lang yong mina don sa site ni inang. :D

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  35.  

    wala…joke lang :D

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  36.  

    Haayyy ngayon lang ako ulit nakapasyal, natambakan kasi ako ng labahin… Alam mo naman busy sa part-time. Ikaw kala ko ba PPP ka din? Bakit hindi ka kasama sa shift namin? he he he…

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  37.  

    HOY! MGA IMPAKTA HINDI AKO SI MINA! LOL… ANU VA YAN…

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  38.  

    psst DIWA ano ba yan pinagkakaguluhan nyo?? :D

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  39.  

    Ako daw si Mina – Remember Mina? Yong sumulat kay Inang? Neways psst ka din… Kamusta na? Nak ng… Mahal mo naman sumingil parang EURO $30??? He he he… Type ko tong entry mong to! Natataman ako… Hindi ko na lang sasabihin kung saan jan ha ha ha…

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  40.  

    VERBAL ABUSE aber? CHUVA does it! FLIP does it! Do you do it DIWA? – I don’t…

    whattabout PERSONAL ABUSE? – I LIKE!

    i like it kung sasampalin ka di ba, taz duguan yong labi mo, taz hahawakan ka sa leeg, pull ang hair mo, then sasabihin sayong “I love you!” taz hahalikan ka? Di ba ansarap nun?

    he he he

    TYPE ko to! Tapos lagyan pa ng supot sa ulo no? SARAP ang aking fantasies….

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  41.  

    itong si diwa o…heheh luka luka… :-D

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  42.  

    ang galing..before twice a night after twice a month…hmmmm….

    wag naman sana…

    ei! ganda nitong post mo..dami naka-relate oh!

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  43.  

    @DIWA,

    Mahal ba ang singil? LOL syempre!

    abah me pagka morbid ang dating ng fantasy ah? hmmn sa’yo ba yan ginagawa?

    @JC

    bunso, si DIWA pala ang mag papa react sa’yo d2 ha? :)
    teka, lampas ka na ba ng 18? You can’t read what Diwa posted!
    :D

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  44.  

    Jesse,

    salamat…ikaw naka relate ka ba?

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  45.  

    hehehe kasi as in hagalpak ako ng tawa sa comment ni diwa eh hehe…

    regular routine ko naman talaga dumalaw sa mga bahay nyo basta naupo na ko sa harap ng PC ko hehe…yun nga lang mas aliw ako magbasa ng comments…

    ang galing galing ni ros!!! proud ako kilala ko si ros heheh

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  46.  

    Mahal pero okay lang. Type ko ang sinasadista ako ewan ko ba. Mas gusto ko yong tipong binabastus ako. [Kaya naman inlababo ako noon kay Kori diba?] HA AHAAHHAA…

    OI JC!

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  47.  

    wutttttttttt?

    si ms. diwa at ako ay iisa?

    *paboso lang sa blog mo*

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  48.  

    @JC, DIWA, MINA

    abah, nabuhay mga ka diwata at may bagong salta…psst Mina, cno ka ba? ;)

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  49.  

    hulaan ko…baka si ghandee…kasi may Mina din sa bahay ni reynz dati hehe… :-)

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  50.  

    JC,
    si Mina ay si Ghandhee? hmmn

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  51.  

    Si Mina ay isang klase ng hunyango! hik hik hik hik *sinuk*

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  52.  

    so eto pala yon. hunyango, kakulay ng sundalo? nyahahaha.
    hindi ako si mina! di naman ako petiks sa work eh.

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  53.  

    aruuuu… at ako pa rin pala ang laman ng chismis dito.

    ross, bumalik ako, kasi’y naiwan ko yata ang puso ko dito. hinahanap ko nga at nawawala. naitago mo yata… :)

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  54.  

    mina ei!

    maintriga itong batang ito;) hindi ako nagtago ng puso mo ha. Baka nasa ref o palengke.

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  55.  

    naman! gawin ba daw puso ng baka at baboy!?
    ibalik mo sa kin ang nawawala kong puso. :p

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  56.  

    WOW! Tita may tagahanga ka pala!

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  57.  

    ayy nacu-curious ako ha…

    sino nga kaya sya…ros baka yung na-feature mo dito dati na after 25 yrs ba yun eh nagtagpo ulit ang landas nyo?

    hehe just guessing…kasi di ko naman sure kung marunong yun mag-tagalog…if yes, baka nga sya yun… :-D

    kung hindi naman, well…gagamitin ko na ang JC Powers ko hehehe… wahahah… :D

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  58.  

    Hmm kaka intriga ha! SP01 JC inbestigahan mo na!

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  59.  

    Is “nagging” considered a verbal abuse? Hehe. peace! pa-dalaw lang… hehe

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  60.  

    Diwa,

    :D kaya ka andito to discover sino yan taga hanga ko ha? Hmmn
    cge imbestigahan at hindi ko rin alam , cno sya!

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  61.  

    JC,

    ok, use your powers! Samahan mo si Diwa mag imbestiga!
    BTW, asan na yun deliberation nyo ni BEa about my riddles sa post ko??

    I’m waiting for that ha..

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  62.  

    Hello Ice,

    Thanks sa dalaw…pwede din dalasan :)

    About your Question

    [quote comment="4173"]Is “nagging” considered a verbal abuse?[/quote]

    this is my answer:

    There is this saying “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me” is NOT true at all!

    Cruel names and labels can hurt us — sobra!

    A lot of times the emotional damage is unintentional.

    Verbal abuse has these masks:

    NAGGING, criticizing, insulting, degrading, harsh scolding, name-calling, threatening, ridiculing, belittling, trivializing, screaming, ranting, racial slurring and using crude or foul language.

    There are also comments disguised as jokes can be an example of verbal abuse.

    - the end – :D

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  63.  

    ross, samahan ko na din sina diwa at JC sa pag-iimbestiga. pag ba nahulaan, meron babolgam? :mrgreen:

    hey icy! buti naman at nagmarka ka na diteisa balay ni ross. :)
    welcum! welcum! balik ka ha?
    *hehe. feeling me-ari ng blog noh?*

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  64.  

    Ghandee,

    abah!

    [quote comment="4216"]
    hey icy! buti naman at nagmarka ka na diteisa balay ni ross. :)
    welcum! welcum! balik ka ha?
    *hehe. feeling me-ari ng blog noh?*[/quote]

    me secretary na ako dito..sige ikaw na lang taga welcome sa kanila! :)

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  65.  

    Ay hindi ako nag iimbestiga… Ta-tanga-tanga ako! Hindi po ako pulis wala akong powers maging SP01 or SP02 lol.

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  66.  

    Diwa,

    papasalamat ako kahit paano nag iiwan ka ng bakas mo dito :)

    [quote comment="4245"]Ay hindi ako nag iimbestiga… Ta-tanga-tanga ako! Hindi po ako pulis .[/quote]

    ganito na lang…hintayin natin lumabas sa lungga nya si M pero mukhang nahitya na o natakot kasi baka makilala nyo siya, ayun hindi na lumabas! :D

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  67.  

    sino natakot? ako? matapang to!
    sino nahihiya? eh walanghiya ako!
    ano sino lalaban?

    *hi babe!*

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  68.  

    Mina,

    how are you? keep on fighting and having that courage :)

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  69.  

    nice yung before and after i lyk it..kaya lng hve you ever tried to attend a wedding mass?diko na kc naaalala pero mganda rin yung sermon ng pari about sa before and after hehe..bale pag naalala ko post ko..goodluck sa mga ngpopost galing nio gUys!!

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  70.  

    Hi Dianne,

    thank you for dropping by. I have not witnessed a mass wedding yet I wish every couple will feel a unique and unforgettable experience which will last for more meaningful years.

    Can you tell me your site pare ma bisita din :)

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  71.  

    *i lab him so much,, =( and i will olweiz lab him…
    no matter how he breaks this foolish hart of mine…*

    kh8 pa 4 tyms n nya aq iniwan =( hmmmp!!
    i dont know y i still lab him..

    pro i tried 2 forget him.. but in many ways.. as in many ways…i remember his love…

    well, 2tal tapos n ang lhat pti ang “kunwa-kunwaring” pgmamahal nya….i think kelangan q n rin tapusin ang kabaliwan q sknya =( kh8 n msk8 s dibdib =((

    this tym mgpapakatapang aq…ipapakita q how brave i am 2 forget his lab and also his memories =)

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  72.  

    grabe ,,,I LOVE YOU ,ITS OVER .. :(

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  73.  

    This is amazing :) it helped me get over problems :)

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  74.  

    I completely understand the dilemma between staying and leaving. It is really hard to cut off the cord when it drains out the life out of me yet trying to hang on to in blind hope that life will be back again.

    Lately, I mustered all courage to shut him off from my stubborn heart. Tried ignoring his calls and gifts left at my doorstep. It is hard as I want to let him know “i love you and it’s over!”

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  75.  

    hello blogger, i’d been reading your posts on QUOTES in CAN » I LOVE YOU, IT’S OVER and i actually liked them. one thing that i noticed whilst browsing through your blog that a few of the links are not working and giving error. this makes the reading experience a little bit bad. you’ve got a good blog and i will request you to revise the links so that fascinated people can get all of the information they want to have. Btw are you on twitter?? i would really like to follow you and also get up-dates in your blog.

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  76.  

    Great post, beautiful blog with great informational content. This is a really interesting and informative post.

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  77.  

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    Hiya, I’m really glad I’ve found this information. Today bloggers publish only about gossips and net and this is really annoying. A good blog with exciting content, this is what I need. Thank you for keeping this website, I’ll be visiting it. Do you do newsletters? Can not find it.

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  79.  

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  80.  

    Ang sakit but no choice ako nakipagbreak ei,

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  81.  

    I LOVE HER ,, but lahat ng duda nanjan na,,,

    ANG SAKIT SUBRA!!

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  82.  

    @marvz,

    Hi marvs,
    Thank you for passing by and unloading your sentiment. We cannot deny the pain but after this phase, you will feel joy.
    Courage.

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  83.  

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  84.  

    guyzzzz?
    tulong na man jan oh……..
    pa no vha mag move on…. sa isang taong wala na sa u.,…./ \
    hindi ko kasi cia ma wala sa isip ko………

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    Rosanna Sarte Reply:

    Hello Julie Mae,

    thank you for passing by my site. I understand your predicament. You will receive a lot of advices or suggestions but ONLY you – YOURSELF can decide when and how to move on.

    Time heals, don’t worry.

    Best wishes!

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