OBSTACLES: Stumbling Blocks or stepping stones?
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I think a hero is an ordinary individual who finds strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles. - Christopher Reeve
Restlessness of mind, grumbling thoughts and monstrous fears begin to tickle a sense of frustration inside me. I am facing a brick wall! Frozen stiff, I let my mind wander back in time, searching for each particular moments in my life when I decided to change my journey or road trips. Scanning every event, all turns and curbs, an obstacle never failed to greet me along my path.
There and then, obstacle became my faithful companion. Initially, I started to complain of its insistence to follow my road and attention. Obstacle has a way of meddling with my time, with money, my health, my beliefs, my commitment and responsibilities, my relationships, my fears and goals etc. I cried at its presence, complaining of its persistent way to block and humiliate me.
Slowly in time, I discovered obstacle’s other side, a positive one. My attitude and paradigm towards it changed and its harsh ways taught me lessons in life :
- In danger, I achieved courage.
- Between inspiration and desperation, I have a choice.
- In suffering, I learned patience.
- With illness, I found out the value my health, my senses, my body, my mind.
- With sadness, I appreciated happiness.
- After a bitter experience, I cherished its sweetest taste.
- With my limitations, I am exposed to go beyond my capabilities.
- After a defeat, I gained self-confidence.
- My lack of knowledge, focus and clarity confused me into making a mountain out of a mole hill. I discovered humour.
- With my gift of dream, I acquired knowledge of never giving up on it. “Remember and act on it”, I promised myself.
- In humiliation, I discovered that failure is learning, creativity, and innovation.
- In self-pity and solitude, I uncovered that conviction and love is movement.
- With failures, it harnessed my determination to form habits of success and not of failure.
- The only person responsible to see obstacles as a necessity, not a burden, is ME.
- In poverty, I realized what is essential in my life and enjoyed its simplicity like a child.
- Without obstacles, life would be boring and what a bland personality, with little character would I have.
- With obstacles, my life became rooted in Faith. I need to believe in God because it uplifts my heart and gladdens my soul.
Now, I remember that trace when I accepted obstacle as my teacher. I thought I have learned its lessons. I guess, my life’s lesson is not enough, for obstacle is nodding at me again. It is dancing time again with obstacle. I have to practice my rhythm in various life’s music. Let’s leap and skip with obstacle even with a tear in our eye.
Now, close your eyes and imagine: a huge boulder on your way. What will you do?
You have three options: run into the boulder repeatedly, complain about the boulder being in the way, or find a way around the boulder.
Will you accept the boulder for what it is: an obstacle? I suggest that you accept that you cannot go through it. Do not panic, and waste time and energy worrying about the obstacle. Instead, make your own path around the obstacle, either over the boulder, around the boulder, or under the boulder.
I am challenging you to to be a hero as how I quoted Christopher Reeve about obstacle.
Turn obstacles to your advantage, and move forward where others are afraid to go.
P.S.
The birth of Jesus is not a fable but a story of overcoming endless obstacles like fear, rejection, politics, humiliation, murder, poverty of the manger, etc to give us hope and faith that in spite of everything, LIFE is still beautiful!
Merry Christmas to each one of you!
OBSTACLE QUOTES
Patience and perseverance have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish.” - John Quincy Adams
“The greatest obstacle to progress is prejudice.” - Bavee
The senses have been conditioned by attraction to the pleasant and aversion to the unpleasant: a man should not be ruled by them; they are obstacles in his path.” - Bhagavad Gita
Each handicap is like a hurdle in a steeplechase, and when you ride up to it, if you throw your heart over, the horse will go along too.” - Lawrence Bixby
The obstacles you face are… mental barriers which can be broken by adopting a more positive approach.” - Clarence Blasier
The greatest obstacle to discovery is not ignorance — it is the illusion of knowledge.” - Daniel J. Boorstin
You are the only real obstacle in your path to a fulfilling life.” - Les Brown
“The world is full of suffering. It is also full of overcoming it.” “It is a terrible thing to see and have no vision.” -Hellen Keller
It’s the constant and determined effort that breaks down all resistance, sweeps away all obstacles.” - Claude M. Bristol
The lover thinks more often of reaching his mistress than the husband of guarding his wife; the prisoner thinks more often of escaping than the gaoler of shutting his door; and so, whatever the obstacles may be, the lover and the prisoner ought to succeed.” -Stendhal
A barrier is of ideas, not of things.” - Mark Caine
It is not necessary to hope in order to undertake, nor to succeed in order to persevere.” - Charles The Bold
The mere fact that you have obstacles to overcome is in your favor…” - Robert Collier
The Promised Land always lies on the other side of a Wilderness.” - Havelock Ellis
As long as a man stands in his own way, everything seems to be in his way.” - Ralph Waldo Emerson
A desire can overcome all objections and obstacles.” - Gunderson
It is not the mountain we conquer, but ourselves.” - Sir Edmund Hillary
For a long time it seemed to me that real life was about to begin, but there was always some obstacle in the way. Something had to be got through first, some unfinished business; time still to be served, a debt to be paid. Then life would begin. At last it dawned on me that these obstacles were my life.” - Bette Howland
In each age men of genius undertake the ascent. From below, the world follows them with their eyes. These men go up the mountain, enter the clouds, disappear, reappear, People watch them, mark them. They walk by the side of precipices. They daringly pursue their road. See them aloft, see them in the distance; they are but black specks. On they go. The road is uneven, its difficulties constant. At each step a wall, at each step a trap. As they rise the cold increases. They must make their ladder, cut the ice and walk on it., hewing the steps in haste. A storm is raging. Nevertheless they go forward in their madness. The air becomes difficult to breath. The abyss yawns below them. Some fall. Others stop and retrace their steps; there is a sad weariness. The bold ones continue. They are eyed by the eagles; the lightning plays about them: the hurricane is furious. No matter, they persevere.” - Victor Hugo
When man meets an obstacle he can’t destroy, he destroys himself.” - Ryszard Kapuscinski
The marvelous richness of human experience would lose something of rewarding joy if there were no limitations to overcome. The hilltop hour would not be half so wonderful if there were no dark valleys to traverse.” - Helen Keller
A man does what he must — in spite of personal consequences, in spite of obstacles and dangers — and this is the basis of all human morality.” - John F. Kennedy
We are built to conquer environment, solve problems, achieve goals, and we find no real satisfaction or happiness in life without obstacles to conquer and goals to achieve.” - Maxwell Maltz
Obstacles are necessary for success because in selling, as in all careers of importance, victory comes only after many struggles and countless defeats. Yet each struggle, each defeat, sharpens your skills and strengths, your courage and your endurance, your ability and your confidence and thus each obstacle is a comrade-in-arms forcing you to become better or quit. Each rebuff is an opportunity to move forward; turn away from them, avoid them, and you throw away your future.” - Og Mandino
Obstacles are like wild animals. They are cowards but they will bluff you if they can. If they see you are afraid of them… they are liable to spring upon you; but if you look them squarely in the eye, they will slink out of sight.” - Orison Swett Marden (1850-1924) American author and founder of Success magazine.
When we are sure that we are on the right road there is no need to plan our journey too far ahead. No need to burden ourselves with doubts and fears as to the obstacles that may bar our progress. We cannot take more than one step at a time.” - Orison Swett Marden
The greater the obstacle, the more glory in overcoming it.” - Moliere
Obstacles are those frightful things you see when you take your eyes off your goal.” - Hannah More
The harder the conflict, the more glorious the triumph. What we obtain too cheaply, we esteem too lightly; ‘Tis dearness only that gives everything its value.” - Thomas Paine
Stand up to your obstacles and do something about them. You will find that they haven’t half the strength you think they have.” - Norman Vincent Peale
You may have a fresh start any moment you choose, for this thing that we call Failure is not the falling down, but the staying down.” - Mary Pickford
Those who commence deliberately. They plod on. They stick to it. They persevere and finally reap their rewards.” - Charles E. Popplestone
The obstacle is the path.” - Zen Saying
Press on. Obstacles are seldom the same size tomorrow as they are today.” - Robert H. Schuller
For every mountain there is a miracle.” - Robert H. Schuller
Real obstacles don’t take you in circles. They can be overcome. Invented ones are like a maze.” - Barbara Sher
Imaginary obstacles are insurmountable. Real ones aren’t. But you can’t tell the difference when you have no real information. Fear can create even more imaginary obstacles than ignorance can. That’s why the smallest step away from speculation and into reality can be an amazing relief. The Reality Solution means: Do it before you’re ready.” - Barbara Sher
It is not ease but effort, not facility but difficult, that makes man. There is perhaps no station in life in which difficulties do not have to be encountered and overcome before any decided means of success can be achieved.” - Samuel Smiles
Everyone who achieves success in a great venture, solves each problem as they came to it. They helped themselves. And they were helped through powers known and unknown to them at the time they set out on their voyage. They keep going regardless of the obstacles they met.” - W. Clement Stone
Life is queer with its twists and turns, As everyone of us sometimes learns, And many a failure turns about, When he might have won had he stuck it out, Don’t give up though the race seems slow, You may succeed with another blow, Success is failure turned inside out, The silver tint of the clouds of doubt, And be near when it seems so far, So stick to the fight when you’re hardest hit, It’s when things seem worse, That you must not quit.” - Unknown
It takes a little courage, and a little self — control. And some grim determination, If you want to reach the goal. It takes a deal of striving, and a firm and stern-set chin. No matter what the battle, If you really want to win. There’s no easy path to glory, There’s no road to fame. Life, however we may view it, Is no simple parlor game; But it’s prizes call for fighting, For endurance and for grit; For a rugged disposition and don’t know when to quit.” - Unknown
Every sale has five basic obstacles: no need, no money, no hurry, no desire, no trust.” - Zig Ziglar
Most of our obstacles would melt away if, instead of cowering before them, we should make up our minds to walk boldly through them. -Orison Swett Marden
Life’s up and downs provide windows of opportunity to determine your values and goals. Think of using all obstacles as stepping stones to build the life you want.-Marsha Sinetar
If you find a path with no obstacles, it probably doesn’t lead anywhere. -Frank A. Clark
It still holds true that man is most uniquely human when he turns obstacles into opportunities. -Eric Hoffer
Obstacles don’t have to stop you. If you run into a wall, don’t turn around and give up. Figure out how to climb it, go through it, or work around it. - Michael Jordan
History has demonstrated that the most notable winners usually encountered heartbreaking obstacles before they triumphed. They won because they refused to become discouraged by their defeats. -B. C. Forbes
The block of granite which was an obstacle in the pathway of the weak becomes a stepping-stone in the pathway of the strong. - Thomas Carlyle (1795-1881) British historian and essayist.
I believe that the very purpose of life is to be happy. From the very core of our being, we desire contentment. In my own limited experience I have found that the more we care for the happiness of others, the greater is our own sense of well-being. Cultivating a close, warmhearted feeling for others automatically puts the mind at ease. It helps remove whatever fears or insecurities we may have and gives us the strength to cope with any obstacles we encounter. It is the principal source of success in life. Since we are not solely material creatures, it is a mistake to place all our hopes for happiness on external development alone. The key is to develop inner peace. - The Dalai Lama
…cops and reporters are much alike. Both are absolutely dedicated to doing the job at hand, regardless of obstacles. And both, deep down, really believe the rules don’t apply to them. - Jim Barlow, Houston Chronicle
Whatever obstacles appear in your path, put your head down and get past them. Those obstacles aren’t real. They’re just God’s way of testing you. He’s asking you, “Do you want to make it or not?”
- Russell Simmons
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just wishing you the best of holidays ross! tagal mo na sa pinas ah! hahaha
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ross Reply:
December 23rd, 2008 at 10:41 am
@reyna elena,
Abah! Nadalaw ako ng mahal na reyna! Merry Christmas to you too and my best wishes din.
Totohanan na ito kahit piso lang pera masaya naman
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new year na sana hapi para sa yo at sa mga mahal mo.
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ross Reply:
January 7th, 2009 at 8:31 am
@G,
Thank you. Best wishes to you and to all who are dear to you. May you have a peaceful 2009.
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Kapatid babati lang ako sayo at ngayon lang ako natapos sa aking blog. naglipat kasi ako ng server.
May you and your family have a very blessed Christmas (actually pasko pa) and may the Lord guide you through this new year.
All the best in 2009!
Pax et Bonum
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ross Reply:
January 7th, 2009 at 8:29 am
@bluepanjeet,
hello Bro!
Happy new year! I am wishing you peace of mind throughout the year na ano pa man ang dumating, cool ka pa rin
Thank you for passing by…
Cheers to Life!
pax et bonum
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i love quotes! it’s very obvious in my friendster profile as I use quotes on my photo descriptions.
i love your site… everything about it - the contents, the layout, the design! perfect!
can we exchange links?
maxi of www.healthnbeyond.com
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ross Reply:
January 8th, 2009 at 10:25 am
@maxi,
Ciao Maxi,
Happy and peaceful 2009 to you. Thank you for dropping by and your warm comments about my site encourage me not to close this down as I do not have much time updating it.
Hoping my readers like you will not get tired of my once a month post.
sure we can exchange links…please refer to my nexus tab.
thanks
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Hi Ross!
Happy new year! Kumusta ang holidays? I hope you had a great one. Saang bundok ka ngayon?
Ay, please don’t close down this blog. Bahagi na ito ng life ko eh
Ako heto, unti-unti akong naglilipat ako ng ilang text galing sa tahimik na tubig. Para naman consolidated ang thoughts ko sa Nortehanon ko hehehe
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ross Reply:
January 15th, 2009 at 10:38 am
@Nortehanon,
Ciao!
I was thinking of closing this down as naka hihiya ang once in a bluemoon update eh
However, me mga request like yours na wag na, wag na lang nga …nagpapa pigil
Peaceful new year seo Nortehanon and thanks sa encouragements…na bahagi na ng life mo itong site ko heheh
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Hello Soulm8!! Napadalaw rin ako rito ngayon dahil napalipat din ako ng server. Sinipa ako ng bluehost dahil sa mga chorva chorvahan.. at sa paglilipat ko, nabasa ko yung mga comments at mga pagkakakilala natin nung February 2007. Magdadalawang taon ko na pala kayong kilala!
Don’t forget to email me your number diyan sa Filifayns.. dahil pag ako ay naka uwi (God-willing!) siguradong ite-text kita. Okidokies?
Peace and Love,
Chuva
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ross Reply:
January 15th, 2009 at 10:42 am
@chuva,
Chuvs!
Yup we will be turning 2 years..malayo na ang nalakbay nyo ni inang. Super sikat na kayo, kaya I am so proud of your achievements. Laging updated ang sites nyo.
I still remember the google ad sense days natin..nakakaloka talaga sa pag iisip ng how tos para tumaas ang “pitik” heheh
See you when I see you…okey?
Peaceful New year and thanks for dropping by..
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You write well, but i can’t give you an award for that.. but for your cute blog header, i can.. pick it up at Blog Header Award. Just contact me if you want it removed.
God bless you and have a wonderful day.
Elyong
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ross Reply:
January 30th, 2009 at 5:46 pm
@Elyong,
Thank you so much for the award. Why should I ask you to removed it? On the contrary, I would like to ask you if I could place here the blog header award even if I landed second.
Cheers to Life!
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Elyong Reply:
January 30th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
@ross, hahaha sure! why not! I am glad that you liked it. Siguro if i have to give an award for comment boxes, yours is a sure win.. kaya lang injustice yon kasi wala pa akong nakitang kasing unique at kasing creative na comment box other than yours.. walang ka laban-laban ang iba… hehehe
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ross Reply:
February 2nd, 2009 at 7:40 am
@Elyong,
wow! award for comment boxes and the the competion is not that stiff, huh?!
well, maybe there are other sites with creative comment box…you only need to do a lot of blog hopping more than you did with browsing Reyna’s blogroll
thanks again
this blog has interesting layout and content as well. keep it up. ang galing!
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ross Reply:
January 30th, 2009 at 5:52 pm
@eliment,
Thank you for passing by and leaving your “blogprints” here. I really appreciate your inspiring review about my site.
Cheers to Life!
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im glad i chance upon ur blogsite…it feels great to spend time here. keep on writing po. =)
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ross Reply:
September 10th, 2009 at 12:36 pm
@princess adeth,
Thank you for passing by my site. Too bad, I could not update it as soon as I can. Please subscribe to my feeds so you would be notified if I have a new post, ok?
Thank you for the nice words
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